Life is short, you never know where u will leave this "world". Learn to cherish those around u, esp ur family members.
One of my classmate's gran passed away. Went to the wake at Hougang. The last time I attended a wake was 2-3 years ago. I dun like such occasions. The atmosphere was so saddening. Classmate's mum wrote a poem for the late mum and I was moved to tears..
Be brave. Letting go sometimes maybe the best solution.