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This Daddy of a Baby
Wednesday, August 01, 2007 / 12:22 AM

Everytime when I go to school early in the morning, I will see this man (in his early or mid-30s I guess) carrying a baby and sending him to some place.

In the beginning I thought the Mummy might be busy so the Daddy sending the Baby to maybe Grandma's place.

But somehow I dun think that's the case for this family. Maybe single-parent case (again)..

This brings me to some of the cases of my kids in school. I witnessed quite a few of them growing up in a single parent family environment. And I really pity those kids.

I believe some of them must be thinking..

"Why I don't get to see my Mummy/Daddy?"

And those with family problems are those who have problems in school.. Sometimes, we really can't blame their attitudes cos most of the time they are caused by family backgrd. Although I always see that I am very close to my Dad, I love my Mum too. Just that most of the time I get irritated by her.

I think it's really important for a child to grow up in an environment with both parents around and still loving as ever. Becos the child will received the love by the parents and they will be more positive. They will also be more motivated.

On the other hand, the single parent needs to work to support the child. Most of the time, he/she will not be at home to look after his/her kids. Therefore, children understand this circumstances will tend to feel a loss of attention as compared to other kids around..

I always urge my kids to be more careful with the sensitive towards issues spoken and learn to put theirselves in other's shoes. These kids will never understand unless they have gone through the roller coaster right??

Back to the Baby and Daddy..

I really hope to see the Mummy of this little baby soon.. :)