Back from home after resting for 4 days.. I realised that if I continue to stay at home.. I will put on a few more pounds!! So better to come back hall..
I shall talk about love for family and self in this post.
For family..
I must admit that I am a Daddy's girl. Daddy's girl not becos I listen to everything Dad. In fact, 3 years ago, we nearly fell out. I realised that after I moved into hostel, my relationship with Dad got better. Maybe absence really makes the hearts fonder. Ha! Have been sharing a lot of personal experience with Dad. He usually dun commend. Just listen to me whining and nagging and complaining abt things around me.. Dad will ask me for opinions on the clothes to wear, the colour to dye for his hair and whether he has put on weight. Likewise, I ask Dad those questions too..
As for Mum, she used to complain and nagged at me very often. Recently, I have been helping out with the household chores and surprisingly, this would keep her quiet. So now I know that to keep Mum from nagging at me, I shall help with the chores as often as possible.
For myself..
I think it is important for everyone to learn to love himself/herself. I remembered when I was in primary school, they did a questionaire. They had this question which we were supposed to answer whether we love ourselves. I answered "No"becos I did not have friends. (Those days if u guys still remember, there was a lot of i friend u, u dun friend her issues.. Haha..)
But when u ask me the same question now, I would say 'Yes, of cos!'.. I have a lot of supportive friends who always stand by me, classmates who cheer me up when I am down, hallmates who look after my needs in hall, family members who never fail to shower me with all the love, care and concern. What more can I ask for? (Bf? Wahaha.. No la.. Not at the moment.. Let nature takes its course..)
Sometimes, I wonder why some ppl who wasted their lives away after experiencing some setbacks. Like quarreling with their loved ones, breaking up, not doing well for test/exams, failed driving.. To all these ppl, move on.. There are more important things in life which await you. The world will continue to spin despite u being upset..
Time to reflect and ask when was the last time u ever pamper urself? In fact, this should be done on a daily basis.. *beam*