Today I had a wonderful conversation with my roomie in the room. We talked about council days in jc, life and marriage.
She posted me this question:
There will be 3 guys in your life.
1. You husband
2. The guy u love the most
3. The guy who loves you the most
How many you think you have met so far?
Personally, I think I have met none yet. To me, all I can say is that I will only know whether I have met the guy whom I love the most after I get married. But I think I am quite certain that I will not know of the existence of the 3rd type of guy. :)
Ten years down the road, you may bump into ur old flame on the street. Would you want him to see u as a strong independent career woman or a content family woman with kids? What will u expect from him on the other hand? Still the charming and suave one whom had your heart melted and tears shed or a sensible family man?
Sometimes we will always say that maybe the one has appeared and is among our frens who we are close to now but how many of us really bump into such a guy?
As for now, I know who is the one who still have a place in my heart. But it would be too early to say if he is the love whom I love the most. Well.. I can still wait and find out..
Life goes on for me..