To a woman, a good bra must at least have a good support and provide certain level of comfort..

I think bras are like friends around u..

This is how women buy bras:

When we choose bra, we tend to bring a few pieces of different colours or cuttings into the fitting room to try on. den when we put it on, we see if it is comfortable and make sure the cups are able to cover what is necessary.. Den we look into the mirror and strike a few pose to see if it looks good on us.. Den we KIV that bra..

After which, we try the other colours and cuttings.. Becos we are allowed to bring a max of 3 pieces into the fitting room at most times, we tend to make a few trips if we have taken quite a fair bit of bras from the store.

When you wear a good bra, it is definitely one which gives u the support and comfort you need. When the bra gives u a good support, you will feel secured and rest assured that the hooks at the back (or some in front) will not snap off just lidat.

Of cos there are instances whereby u buy a bra to realise that u actually dun quite like it.. But since u have bought it, u just make do with it. Den if u wear it often and all the bras are lidat, it will cost the breasts to "change shape"..

Sometime, u realise that u havent been wearing a particular bra for a long time, when u took it out to wear and to match some outfit.. Suddenly it looks good and nice on you.. Even though u are wearing it inside and the tendency is that not many ppl will see it anyway..

This is the way we have been treating our friends too.

Initially when u meet a new group of friends.. You will mix around with everyone.. Den slowly u will find your "preferences" after some time and interactions with different individuals.. we tend to find friends of the same frequency as us becos communication is very impt. If ur friends cannot give u the support u need.. u will slowly drift away without realising.. Some time, there are friends in our lives when we will always go to for advices and complaints. But how often do we realise that we have been sharing the bad things to the same person only when we need them? Why can't we share some happy things with them?

A friend will give u the support u need and always there to provide a shoulder for u to lean on when u need. U will feel the sense of security hanging out with such friends.. U are confident that these friends will not leave u in lure when u are in trouble.. They are the ones who will go thru thick and thin with u.. But how many of such friends do u really have? Trial and tested? Not always..

Some friends we made in life are hi and bye friends.. But who knows in the future they may end up to be ur friend-long friends who provide u with the support and comfort u need..? For friends who have their shortcomings, do not end up being of the same kind.. If the change is positive, be daring enough to tell and help your friend correct his/her shortcomings..

I have a couple of bras in my wardrobe. I normally wear a variety of them.. But tend to wear sports bras most often..But now since I believe that I have brought the bras, it must have been right somehow.. I want to strike a good balance between the types of bras I have been wearing..

Times when I don't wear bra is when I need some space to "breathe". These are my quiet times for my to be alone.. :)

Friends, thanks for being my bras. Although I may not have the chance to meet every individual ones of u that often, rest assured that u are remembered and loved. There will be chance for us to meet and catch up with each others' lives.. I may not be the best bra that u have but as far as possible, I aim to be one of ur better ones.. (For the guys, it's like boxer/brief to you.. )

Sorry if there are times when I totally shun away from all of u.. I guess I also need some personal space.. Hope u understand..

Sorry if this analogy sucks but since this is my blog, I simply get to doodle about anything I want.. Maybe I shall talk about shit the next time.. Haha.. And since my angmor sucks, the points are "discussed" in a random manner too! Hahahaha..

Time to dig out all the bras!! :P

Hmmm.. What shall I wear tmr?